by Guest » Tue May 25, 2010 7:05 am
I think you have to want to get clean for yourself, not for your bf. But if wanted to get clean for him works, then it's all good. go to meetings, get a sponsor, don't give up if you relapse. try to get your life on the right track if it's really what you want. But if he's a cheater, whether you're clean or not doesn't make any difference. he'll cheat on you, he'll cheat on any of girlfriends. Dump him and look somewhere else. he's not worth your energy.
I think you have to want to get clean for yourself, not for your bf. But if wanted to get clean for him works, then it's all good. go to meetings, get a sponsor, don't give up if you relapse. try to get your life on the right track if it's really what you want. But if he's a cheater, whether you're clean or not doesn't make any difference. he'll cheat on you, he'll cheat on any of girlfriends. Dump him and look somewhere else. he's not worth your energy.