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Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Agavered » Wed Mar 05, 2014 9:38 pm

Focus. Set a goal that you have to stop. There's a lot of options and meetings out there that can help.

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by VESA » Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:08 pm

I tried a lot of things to figure out what was triggering my drinking and figured out I drank too much coffee and to calm down and get sleep drank alcohol. I did this cycle of up and down for years. For me coffee and booze had to be cut off at the same time. So far less cravings, it was definitely not easy.

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by nathaniel27 » Thu Sep 20, 2012 2:04 am

I am a 27 year old male and this is my first time here and wanted to let everyone know that its been really good reading about other people going through the same things i am. stay strong everyone.

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Guest » Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:34 am

Scared and Alone wrote:
> Reading your words made me start crying. I feel so alone trying to quit
> drinking. Everyone I know abuses alcohol or drugs. I must say that I am
> the worst out of them all. At least my guilt makes me feel that way. I
> drink almost every day. I drink to forget, but I have forgotten what I am
> trying to forget. I have fallen into a drunken rabbit hole. I'm scared I
> will lose everyone if I stop, but lose them if I don't. This is my first
> day not drinking. I just wanted to thank you for writing.


I'm so glad you wrote---You are NOT alone. I just found this website/forum and think it is awesome. You took the first step by reaching out. I'm an emotional person also--Do not feel alone. One day at a time....be strong

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Guest » Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:25 am

Fifi wrote:
> I'm in Philly too! Small world, huh? I've been considering going to an AA
> meeting just to give it a test drive. My first step was to come on here
> though. Feel free to send me a private message on here anytime. I'd love
> to be accountable to someone that is in the same boat, share tips, etc...
> Have a beautiful night! Xxoo :D

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by knowledge1 » Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:44 pm

I am a 39 year old female. I know I need to stop. I do not drink everyday but when I do it is to much. Then sometimes it turns into explosive situations that could have been prevented. I am losing my husband and my children are not good with it. I finally admitted that I do have a problem and need to handle it.

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by navysteve95 » Wed Sep 05, 2012 6:36 pm

Call Intergroup at 215-923-7900 tell them where you are and that you wish to speak to a woman

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Fifi » Wed Sep 05, 2012 1:48 pm

I'm a 37 year old female who has just started looking into the sober life as well. I'm close to South Philly. If you ever need someone to talk to that understands what you are going through please message me. I've been thinking about going to a meeting soon...

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Scared and Alone » Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:21 am

I live in the Art Museum area. Does anyone know a female in the area that I can talk to? Thanks.

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Scared and Alone » Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:16 am

Reading your words made me start crying. I feel so alone trying to quit drinking. Everyone I know abuses alcohol or drugs. I must say that I am the worst out of them all. At least my guilt makes me feel that way. I drink almost every day. I drink to forget, but I have forgotten what I am trying to forget. I have fallen into a drunken rabbit hole. I'm scared I will lose everyone if I stop, but lose them if I don't. This is my first day not drinking. I just wanted to thank you for writing.

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by navysteve95 » Mon Sep 03, 2012 11:01 am

Lisa you can start at the 12 Keys. If you PM me I can give you some female phone numbers of solid women in sobriety who can help. Friday Night at Holy Family College in Northeast Philly has alot of strong women who can help

First time on here

Post by Lisa040610 » Mon Sep 03, 2012 9:02 am

My name is Lisa I am 30 years old and I have a drinking problem. I don't drink everyday but when I do drink I can't stop until I just pass out. I black out when I drink which isn't good. This is the first time I am actually admitting I have a problem. I want to start going to AA meetings in my area but I am so embarrassed to go alone. Any advice?
I am in the Levittown area if anyone knows a good place I could go

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Fifi » Wed Aug 29, 2012 10:26 am

Ugh...a bit of a backslide this weekend. Im not going to beat myself up over it, but now I know how easily I can slip up. I'm back on track now. Happy belated birthday and congrats on your success! I'm proud of you...I know that was a real challenge with having a birthday in NYC!

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by cherhend » Sat Aug 25, 2012 8:50 pm

GREAT JOB !!! Today is my birthday and al is well. Went to New York last night for the night. Dinner with friends..diet coke. Out with hubby today ..10 mile kayak trip ! Lots of water. I think I'm doing great. Stay strong...Keep the water , diet drinks , iced tea....carrots and other veggies. Watch out for "bar food" ....I love it , tastes sooooo goood, but soo bad for you. Let me know how the weekend was. XOXO

Re: Don't know where to start

Post by Fifi » Sat Aug 25, 2012 9:11 am

Thanks! You have been in my thoughts as well. I posted something on Thursday but it didn't show....bummer! Well, I went out Thurs night with my girlfriend to hear a performance. I sat at the bar with her and had water and got a bite to eat. The food helped keep my hands and mouth busy so I wouldn't drink. It felt great to be strong! When I got home she texted me and said she was proud of me :). This weekend will be another challenge. My nephew is in town and we are going to a concert. I'm going to try my best. How are you doing?

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