I need advice please
Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 1:55 pm
I am a young mother of three children. Two days ago I removed myself along with our children from our home, because my fiance is (from what I believe) a high functioning alcoholic. He has been to treatment and we continues to deny that he has a problem. His father passed away two years ago from alcoholism and he avoided going to his parents, because he didn't want to deal with any of it. Why would he do this to his own family? He never drinks in front of us, I've caught him a handful of times drinking directly from the bottle(still in a brown paper bag). He hides these said bottles around our yard and I find myself searching for them every other day...always recovering an empty in my search. I love this man with all my heart, I need to know what I can do to help him realize what he is doing to himself and how he is quickly losing control. Thanks so much and I'm looking forward to any and all advice you have to give.