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new to this website - don't know what I'm looking for

Unread postPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 10:31 am
by lizzym
I have no idea how to use this website. Maybe typing will help me. My husband is addicted to alcohol and I'm sick of it. He recently had a very serious neck surgery (fusion), thought that would end it ,but the other day he was so drunk he fell into a wall, not once but twice. I just walked away.

Re: new to this website - don't know what I'm looking for

Unread postPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 10:49 am
by lizzym
How do I post ? How do I find existing messages?
Any way, my marriage has been turbulent and abusive. I've been punched in the face, strangled, and our last physical altercation damn near broke my arm. I feel stupid and ashamed too!! What's wrong with me? Why do I stay? My friends seem to think he's the life of the party, so they don't want to hear me complain about. There was a time when I thought, "well if you can't beat him, join him." That was even dumber, two adults out of control, but thankfully I realized that was not the solution. Is there help? Do I go to al-anon? So tired of living like this.