Supposedly my husband is AT an AA meeting as I type this, It is 10pm so I was kinda suspicious of the time and why so late??
I asked for brochures.
Its just that I have been lied to so much, I don't know when he is telling the truth anymore, so I think he is up to something all the time. But that is tearing us apart. We have 4 children, and its sad that our oldest can determine if daddy has been drinkin by the way he walks in the house, (stumbling) she is 9!
He comes home stumbling and slurring words, but tells me he hasn't had a drink. Then crashes on the couch and sleeps from the time he gets in the door at 6-until he has to get up for work the next day.
He has been locked up for 3 days as a result of drinking, probably wouldn't have been had he not fought the officer who tried to get him back to the hospital, where he woke up and walked out.
I have threatened to pack up our 4 kids and move back home with my family. I even opened my own bank account, and told him it was to be used in case I needed to leave him.
with all of that said, I think leads him to lie to me more.
He has had his slips, but I don't know what to do anymore.
I hate being angry with him all the time, grilling him, accusing him, because I am afraid that will push him furthur to the drink...*nagging wife* but I don't want to just give up.......
I don't know what to do anymore!