by Boomer » Sun Oct 02, 2016 10:21 am
I am brand new here and brand new at accepting my boyfriends addiction. I love him more than anything on this planet and I refuse to give up on him. He knows he has an addiction. At first I was nagging, asking everyday if he was ok, is he going to make it through the day. I have stopped doing that because 1. I am nagging, and 2. he is going to lie to me anyway most likely. He doesn't want to "talk about it", he is "dealing with it". What do I do? Do I just sit back and wait till he is ready? Will he be ready? I know only he can decide when he is ready but what do I do in the meantime? By not saying anything am I enabling? Am I ignoring the problem? Does it look like I don't care? I just want to do the right thing. I want to be there for him, support him, and love him.