Sobriety Online

Help! My adult daughter is living at home because her drinking burned all of her bridges. She is on again off again drinking and it's tearing me apart. She's been in the ER twice in the last two months, jobless due to her drinking and lies at every chance she gets. I'm over it and afraid I'm going to lose her to this! She doesn't want to live here because I'm too strict and nosy. I don't want her here because I hate the drunk that she becomes when she drinks. She's been to outpatient rehab. She's been part of AA, but that seems to just be a joke. I don't know what o do anymore.