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alone and scared

Unread postby sobermom27 » Sun Jul 22, 2012 3:10 pm

hey im charity i got outta rehab wendseday, relasped today and sooo scared ill do it again later or 2maro... i have NO FRIENDS in recovery but deperately need some please help!!!
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby nowlivingsober » Thu Jul 26, 2012 12:40 am

I understand. All of my friends were enablers and they couldn't get why I couldn't party like them. Why I couldn't just stop and go to sleep. You will find friends in recovery. Better than you can imagine right now. The place to find them is at a NA or AA meeting. It does not matter what your drug of choice is, if you can find an NA or AA meeting there you will find hope. Get to meeting if you can. You have everything to gain. I know you are hurting because of the relapse, but that is a part of recovery. Very few people get it right the first time. If you continue using it might be good to get back into rehab if you can, you know, a safe place. Have a plan when you are released. A detailed plan that leaves no room for old friends, places, or things.
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby kelz86 » Mon Aug 13, 2012 10:42 am

sobermom27 wrote:
> hey im charity i got outta rehab wendseday, relasped today and sooo scared ill do
> it again later or 2maro... i have NO FRIENDS in recovery but deperately need some
> please help!!!



I am in a similar spot- im also a mommy of a 4 month old baby boy- at least you are asking for help- thats the first step- n it takes major courage !! i give u mad props on that! really u just helped me just by ur honesty
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby kelz86 » Mon Aug 13, 2012 10:43 am

im a singke mom also in the backs county PA area... i live with my parents @ the age of 25- i recentley got out of a rehab in mid may i have a 4 month old son wgo is my godsend- i am not getting along with my family (mainly my mother) i am clean & she keeps accusing me of being high when im honestly not n wont let me touch my son...im crying hysterically right now- i have not a soul to talk to- on top of everything i found out last week i have hep C.....i need supportive woman in my life and as of now i cant find one- i have been trying to find a meeting this morning but i am having trouble finding a womans group in my area - i am more comfortable there....any advice??? pleassseeee help me <3Kel
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby kelz86 » Mon Aug 13, 2012 10:46 am

u just did the first step by asking and admitting u need help- i appreciate ur honesty b/c u just truely help ed me and i want tosay THANK YOU so very much for that :D
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby pearlofgod50 » Thu Oct 04, 2012 11:59 pm

Hi! My name is Pearl. I'm just out of surgery(3 WKS) ago. I have had my kidney removed. I had cancer in it. NOW--- I just found a lump in my left breast AND I have been experiencing rectal bleeding. YES, I'M SCARED S___less!!!! My gremlin(the voice in my head) tells me I'm gonna die and that I should go out and get some "H." I have been clean for 6 long years. So, honey- once a flippen' addict, ALWAYS a flippen' addict!!! What the SAM H_LL does that mean? GET BACK ON THE HORSE AND RIDE!!!! DON'T sit on the pity pot over this crap!!! Remember-- first and foremost-- YOU ARE AN ADDICT!!!! However-- Get some MORE support!! the sooner, the BETTER!!! Run, DON'T walk, to the nearest phone, call the recovery center and DO WHATEVER they tell you to do. I almost died, THIS TIME, 3 times on the operating table, and in intensive care, TWICE!!! Love yourself, sweetie! I feel your pain. I want SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO B-A-D-L-Y to use right now!! As long as I don't pick up, I can desire all I want, as long as I don't OBSESS. Reaching out to you, telling you that, after 6 years clean, I S-T-I-L-L have thoughts of heroin, is a comfort to me!! So, you see, (my sweet one) you're NOT alone. You've done the right thing. I'll pray for you, and keep you in my thoughts. PLEASE- do GO call the recovery center. YES-- EVEN HIGH!!!
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby merryflip » Mon Oct 08, 2012 2:35 am

Members of the family lend each other moral support and also practical help when necessary.
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby suzin225 » Thu Oct 18, 2012 6:26 pm

my name is Susan. i want to get clean soooo bad. i feel so hopeless, helpless, useless. :( :( scared, miserable, lazy, and ALOT OF NEGATIVE THINKING. CAN ANYONE HELP??? :(
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby dtsunga » Thu Mar 21, 2013 11:51 pm

suzin225 wrote:
> my name is Susan. i want to get clean soooo bad. i feel so hopeless,
> helpless, useless. :( :( scared, miserable, lazy, and ALOT OF NEGATIVE
> THINKING. CAN ANYONE HELP??? :(

hey, susan, i suggestion you should go and get help from Psychiatrist
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby Spartacus54 » Tue Jun 25, 2013 12:50 am

kelz86 wrote:
> im a singke mom also in the backs county PA area... i live with my parents
> @ the age of 25- i recentley got out of a rehab in mid may i have a 4 month
> old son wgo is my godsend- i am not getting along with my family (mainly my
> mother) i am clean & she keeps accusing me of being high when im
> honestly not n wont let me touch my son...im crying hysterically right now-
> i have not a soul to talk to- on top of everything i found out last week i
> have hep C.....i need supportive woman in my life and as of now i cant find
> one- i have been trying to find a meeting this morning but i am having
> trouble finding a womans group in my area - i am more comfortable
> there....any advice??? pleassseeee help me <3Kel
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby Spartacus54 » Tue Jun 25, 2013 12:51 am

merryflip wrote:
> Members of the family lend each other moral support and also practical help
> when necessary.
Good advice
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby Spartacus54 » Tue Jun 25, 2013 12:54 am

:x :nowlivingsober wrote:
> I understand. All of my friends were enablers and they couldn't get why I couldn't
> party like them. Why I couldn't just stop and go to sleep. You will find friends
> in recovery. Better than you can imagine right now. The place to find them is at
> a NA or AA meeting. It does not matter what your drug of choice is, if you can find
> an NA or AA meeting there you will find hope. Get to meeting if you can. You have
> everything to gain. I know you are hurting because of the relapse, but that is a
> part of recovery. Very few people get it right the first time. If you continue using
> it might be good to get back into rehab if you can, you know, a safe place. Have
> a plan when you are released. A detailed plan that leaves no room for old friends,
> places, or things.
Spartacus54 wrote:turn it over to a power greater than yourself,believe in yourself.
> kelz86 wrote:
> > im a singke mom also in the backs county PA area... i live with my parents
> > @ the age of 25- i recentley got out of a rehab in mid may i have a 4 month
> > old son wgo is my godsend- i am not getting along with my family (mainly my
> > mother) i am clean & she keeps accusing me of being high when im
> > honestly not n wont let me touch my son...im crying hysterically right now-
> > i have not a soul to talk to- on top of everything i found out last week i
> > have hep C.....i need supportive woman in my life and as of now i cant find
> > one- i have been trying to find a meeting this morning but i am having
> > trouble finding a womans group in my area - i am more comfortable
> > there....any advice??? pleassseeee help me <3Kel
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby kethy » Tue Oct 01, 2013 1:44 am

My all friends are going with their whole family members to spend their winter holidays in outside countries. So I am alone and feel scare from others who are not my friends and elder from me because they are all looking dangers and doing bad activities. So I need a good friend who have various knowledge about the world and about business fields because I like to talk about business and increase my mind level so I hope many people’s understand my thoughts and like to friendship with me and share you big information with me to expand my knowledge because I want to become a big business man in whole universe.
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Re: alone and scared

Unread postby ruthief » Sat Mar 22, 2014 10:12 am

hang on even when u feel alone and scared--there are people all over waiting to help-
There are days when I feel alone and scared and have a sober husband who is supportive buy I still need u guys
out there outside of family,although they may help very much I still need outside advice and help.
Sometimes families love blocks some feelings u may only hear from an outside source-SOOOO hang in
there-stay strong-I am hanging in although it is still hard to do so.
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