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Humilation/ Depression/ GettingOutOfBed

Unread postPosted: Wed Dec 29, 2010 3:27 pm
by downUPdown2
Hi, I have been humiliating myself by being drunk all over the city. I have been kicked out of many local bars, and just generally have acted like a jerk. i am universally despised and have no friends. Not one person will answer the phone to talk to me. I can't get out of bed and face the world, I just feel so awful. I don't know where to start.

Re: Humilation/ Depression/ GettingOutOfBed

Unread postPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2011 10:40 pm
by glitterbug
Hey! Are you still depressed and humiliated? Do you need some help getting to a meeting? Let me know. I may be able to help. Recovery is a long slow process so the sooner you start the better. It still takes a long time how to figure out how not to alienate yourself from others. but the very first step is getting and staying sober. Nothing works until that is achieved.

Re: Humilation/ Depression/ GettingOutOfBed

Unread postPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 12:44 pm
by oh2exhale
Hang in there, get to a meeting or two. I did the same thing, humiliated myself and got thrown out of places - lost my dignity and respect...I finally stopped drinking and making it worse. If you dont like where youve been and where your going change direction.

Re: Humilation/ Depression/ GettingOutOfBed

Unread postPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 12:25 pm
by imdannyg
hey, absolutely start with a meeting. And if your shy, start with one on here...do just what your doing now and talk about it...one thing i know works and thats TALK...TALK ...TALK..lol i know in the beginning it doesnt sound like it would work but hey if we had all the answers we wouldnt be here right? LOL keep talking on forums til u can get to a meeting, find a priestt, talk to a family member, anythng but isolating , you will just end up back into another bar, trust me been there done that. Good luck