husband in rehab
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 9:57 am
it's like he is not even gone
he calls me four times a day and i want it to STOP!
there are certian things we need to heal from and him talking to us is not helping.
I can handle talking to him maybe once in the morning or during the evening but thats all I can handle.. any suggestions?
He recently wrote us ( daughter and I) a letter and all it talked about was how much he had changed. I was disappointed because on the phone he talked about all the pain he caused but did not write about it in his letters. on the phone he said how sorry he was but in his letters he said nothing about why and what he was sorry for... I know what he has done and I am willing to forgive but if he cannot write me about the pain he knows he caused then I think he is just wasting my time and should move on. If he does not ask to be forgiven for the things he has done then I think he has not change at all. Most the time he is complaining of "something" when he calls.
he calls me four times a day and i want it to STOP!
there are certian things we need to heal from and him talking to us is not helping.
I can handle talking to him maybe once in the morning or during the evening but thats all I can handle.. any suggestions?
He recently wrote us ( daughter and I) a letter and all it talked about was how much he had changed. I was disappointed because on the phone he talked about all the pain he caused but did not write about it in his letters. on the phone he said how sorry he was but in his letters he said nothing about why and what he was sorry for... I know what he has done and I am willing to forgive but if he cannot write me about the pain he knows he caused then I think he is just wasting my time and should move on. If he does not ask to be forgiven for the things he has done then I think he has not change at all. Most the time he is complaining of "something" when he calls.