Completely lost...

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Completely lost...

Unread postby haodea » Fri Jul 06, 2012 7:27 pm

My boyfriend of the past three years just had another relapse yesterday and is back in rehab. I'm devastated and really need someone to talk to. I can't handle all of the lies and manipulations anymore and realize I need to help myself now. I haven't been able to stop crying and am so incredibly sad. I'm not close with my family and pushed most of my friends away over the last few years because I've been dealing with him. Please help me. :(
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Re: Completely lost...

Unread postby Guest » Mon Jul 09, 2012 5:31 am

Not sure what to say, it's always the same deal, but at least your boyfriend is going to rehab. Please go to an Al-anon meeting!!! This is one of the best places to get help and make some sense of your life with an addict. Come back and share if you want.

Re: Completely lost...

Unread postby PRV1960 » Thu Jul 12, 2012 11:02 am

Mine just relapsed last night for the millionth time....I cry alot,I am angry,I hate life, I feel lost and humiliated again, and guess what??? No al anon meetings in my area....Thanks! I think I will just run away, because like this person, I pushed everyone away to take care of him, I have lost family,friends, and myself in this deal....I hate my life!

Re: Completely lost...

Unread postby monica » Sat Jul 14, 2012 4:45 am

I'm sorry for what your going threw! I went threw same situation with my first love. We moved in together when i was just about 18. He was in and out of rehabs and jail for most of our relationship(which lasted about 8 yrs) He lied daily, stole my $$,my car(and sold it in exchange for drugs) jewlery, and anything else that was worth anything. I lost friends and family because i would not take anyones advice and leave him. I told myself i could change him. I could help him. What i didnt know then and know now is much as i wanted to help him,as much as i thought i was all he had... he couldnt be helped unless he truely wanted it! I thank god everyday for giving me the strength to see what i needed to do for ME!! To move on!! To realize i tried..i really tried!! When and if he got better and things changed..then maybe we could start a life together. Just so happens in my situation...20 yrs later... i see him around...still doing same thing! He just wasnt ready to give it up..and still isnt! I still hope one day he will! I hope things work out for u!
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