by disstressedmom22 » Fri Sep 30, 2011 1:21 pm
I need opinions sober or not users, online. my son in law aand duaghter moved in a month ago. he went to rehab, 10 days, detoxed there when he said he did at home. daughter probably had alot to do with him coming home early although i was told it was insurance, blah blah,
first week home he said he was awful,, (i wasn't here) 2nd he was racey hiper yellin,, talkin a little bout problems, anxious sort of what i expected,,,,
leaves for meetings every night. couple days ago he amd she had a fight, he also had access now to money, he has been cleaning sweet, mild manored, he lights incense outside on my porch everyday before i get home and his good mood i startded thinking he might be smoking,?? don't know didn't say anything to anybody.
when i got home today he left to do a errand, which would take about a hour. i went outside and there was a make shift pipe from tin foil and lighter. he came back in few minutes, went straight to back yard and went to where the pipe was, ( which i took and hid. i had to think, not sure what to do about the situation talk to him, what ?? )
He saw it was missing and ask if i saw it he said he found it in the corner of the yard,, then said my dog was eating it that's why it was there, he wanted to show me, the pipe, sitting next to my daughters lighter she uses for candles, he said he smokes cigs (dont see any) he says he lights incense everyday (inside the porch, now lighter and pipe are together outside. I asked him if he found it like he said why didnt he just throw it away and why was it sitting with the lighter?? reply cigs incense etc,, and he said in meetings if this happens he should address it right away,, like finding a pipe somewhere ?? WHAT IS THE TRUTH would meetings tell you to hold it and talk about it next to a lighter that is never outside, i know you dont know him but please give me your honest opinion