by chulanasia » Fri Dec 07, 2012 8:59 pm
I know you posted this some time ago, I do know what you are going through and really there is not much you can do to change him. Alcoholics have to make the decision to stop, they have to want help. When you try to do things yourself it only makes them angry and then you feel hurt because they are not accepting your help.I have lost both my parents to alcoholism, so I know that it is difficult to live with. What you should focus on is what you want to remember that is/was good about him and the good times you shared with him. I miss my parents and it hurts me that they were not apart of so many things in my life, although you have to understand that none of these things are your fault.